the cute elephants..

i was reading Reader's Digest for the month of April 07 when i came to read about Lek who helped a lot of elephants in Thailand. so.. i visitied the website www.elephantnaturepark.org to find out more about the park. urrghhh... i feel like going there... maybe i should add this to my wishlist :P:P but the stories of the elephants were so touching. one elephant who is blind is being guided by another elephant. they wont leave each other... such a sweet friendship! dont you think so?? well.. maybe 1 day..i should really go there!! anyone wants to company me??? :)

understanding me better :P

I took a test at http://www.oneishy.com/personality/personality_test.php to check whether i have changed from sanguine melancholy to something else. and the result was.... sanguine phlegmatic.. am i a phlegmatic? i still say that i am more like a melancholy person :P


Weaknesses of a Sanguine
The Extrovert The Talker The Optimist

The Sanguine's Emotions
Compulsive talker
Exaggerates and elaborates
Dwells on trivia
Can't remember names --> true..sorry if i cant remember ur name :(
Scares others off
Too happy for some
Has restless energy
Egotistical
Blusters and complains
Naive, gets taken in
Has loud voice and laugh --> i believe i do have aloud voice :P
Controlled by circumstances
Gets angry easily --> trying to control myself... jia you!!
Seems phony to some
Never Grows Up --> hey!! i grow up! :P

The Sanguine As A Parent
Keeps home in a frenzy
Forgets children's appointments
disorganized
Doesn't listen to the whole story

The Sanguine At Work
Would rather talk --> i am looking for a job that requires me to talk talk and talk :P :P
forgets obligations
Doesn't follow through
Confidence fades fast
Undisciplined --> hix hix.. it's true :(
Priorities out of order --> another one that is soooo me..!
Decides by feelings --> aha!! i am a feeler!
Easily distracted --> cant never concentrate at one thing :X
Wastes time talking --> do i?? :P

The Sanguine As a Friend
Hates to be alone --> i just dont want to be lonely with no one to talk to.. talk too much!
Needs to be center stage --> sounds like the 'leo' side of me yah...
Wants to be popular --> another one that sounds like 'leo'
Looks for credit
dominates conversations
Interrupts and doesn't listen
answers for others
Fickle and forgetful
Makes excuses
Repeats stories

Strengths of a Sanguine
The Extrovert The Talker The Optimist

The Sanguine's Emotions
Appealing personality --> am i appealing to you??
Talkative, Storyteller --> ask my close friends..and they will agree with you
Life of the Party
Good sense of humor
Memory for color
Physically holds on to listener
Emotional and demonstrative --> i am an emotional person.. ask yolla :P
Enthusiastic and expressive
Cheerful and bubbling over
Curious
Good on stage --> huahahhaa.. i get nervous on stage :$
Wide-eyed and innocent
Lives in the present
Changeable disposition
Sincere at heart
Always a child --> of course!! i am always a child to my parents :) and to God too!!

The Sanguine As A Parent
Makes Home Fun
Is liked by children's friends
Turns disaster into humor
Is the circus master

The Sanguine At Work
Volunteers for Jobs --> then you know who you should be looking for :P
thinks up new activities
Looks great on the Surface
Creative and colorful
Has energy and enthusiasm
Starts in a flashy way
Inspires others to join
charms others to work

The Sanguine As a Friend
Makes friends easily
Loves People --> i love every single persons that i meet
Thrives on compliments
Seems exciting
envied by others
Doesn't hold grudges --> trying to.....
apologizes quickly
Prevents dull moments
Likes spontaneous activities

Weaknesses of a Phlegmatic
The Introvert The Watcher The Pessimist

The Phlegmatic's Emotions
Unenthusiastic
Fearful and worried --> i do sometimes...
Indecisive
Avoids responsibility
Quiet will of iron
Selfish
To shy and reticent --> soooo not me!
Too compromising
Self-righteous

The Phlegmatic As A Parent
Lax on discipline --> i am an undisciplined person :(
Doesn't organize home
Takes life to easy

The Phlegmatic At Work
Not goal oriented
Lacks self motivation
Hard to get moving
Resents being pushed
Lazy and careless --> huh?? careless yah... lazy..sometimes..kekee
Discourages others --> opposites of my sanguine personality?
Would rather watch --> so not me! i prefer do than watch

The Phlegmatic As a Friend
Dampens enthusiasm --> am i?
Stays uninvolved --> i love to involve in everything kekekee...
Is not exciting --> another opposite of my sanguine?
Indifferent to plans
Judges others --> trying not to..
Sarcastic and teasing
Resists change --> if it is for better... why not?

Strengths of a Phlegmatic
The Introvert The Watcher The Pessimist

The Phlegmatic's Emotions
Low-key personality
Easygoing and relaxed
Calm, cool and collected
Patient well balanced
Consistent life
Quiet but witty
Sympathetic and kind
Keeps emotions hidden
Happily reconciled to life
All-purpose person --> sounds like the contact lens cleaning solution :P

The Phlegmatic As A Parent
Makes a good parent
Takes time for the children
Is not in a hurry
Can take the good with the bad
Doesn't get upset easily

The Phlegmatic At Work
Competent and steady
Peaceful and agreeable
Has administrative ability --> was that why i was chosen as secretary for a lot of times?:P
Mediates problems
Avoids conflicts --> who loves conflict?
Good under pressure --> i am not!!
Finds the easy way

The Phlegmatic As a Friend
Easy to get along with --> what do you think, my friends?
Pleasant and enjoyable
Inoffensive
Good listener --> i am trying to be one... hopefully i can be 1...
Dry sense of humor
Enjoys watching people
Has many friends
Has compassion and concern

what i want to do...

list of what i want to do....

1. go to BALI!!! (it has been A LOT OF YEARS since i touched bali for the last time)
2. explore the whole Indonesia...i believe that Indonesia has a lot of nice places to explore and they are waiting to be discover :) any1 wants to join in?
3. go to hongkong -> i had been to disneyland at california, orlando and japan. left with hongkong and france :P
4. go to europe, korea.... hm..any countries that i left out?
5. diving/snorkeling --> i want to see the creations of GOd that live in the sea :D
6. parasailing -> how does it feel to fly?
7. rafting
8. buggy jumping maybe?? :P when one day, i am daring enuff :P
9. the new ferris wheel at marina!!! hohohoo.. cant wait to ride that...with some1 special :D (not necessary him... as long as they are special to me...;) are you the special 1?? :P)

when i remember more things to do... i shall add more :P

thoughts on what happened in US...

some of you might know what was happening over at the US yesterday. 33 people were killed in Virginia Tech University. Apparently, the investigation showed that a Korean student who was the shooter and he killed himself after the incident ended.

The article that I read in http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/afp_asiapacific/view/270916/1/.html said that the shooter was a lonely man. It made me think what his reason was in doing all this. Stress? Rejected or bullied by his peers? Call me a CSI fanatic, but i did learn things from the series. There was one episode about how a man was killed by five persons in the aeroplane (dont ask me which 1...i cant remember the episode's title now :P) it happened because the man was having headache as he was having allergy when he was at certain heights. when he couldnt handle his headache, he started to act wierdly and the people around him tried to stop him and accidentially killed him. at the end of the episode, the CSIs were discussing what they would be doing if they were in the passengers' shoes. and i loved what Grissom said...it took five persons to stop him, but it took only one person to care and ask him about his condition. which is true!! sometimes, we just dont care about the persons beside us. maybe something bad wont happen if we take one moment to just ask and care about these people.

There was one time when i took bus from orchard to home. When i passed Plaza Singapura, i saw a man was lying down on the pavement and he looked very bad. His girlfirend (i assumed she was his girlfriend...there were only 2 of them) was so confused and didnt know what to do. so she ran to the nearest 7-eleven at the dhoby ghaut mrt station. i could see from the bus that no one tried to stop from what they were doing and tried to help him. (on the rest of the journey, i was worried for him...how i wish i just alighted there and help them... i could see from their appearance that they were not local, my guess was that they came from china) i couldnt blame those people who didnt stop...anyway, it was their choice. but if something bad happened to him, wouldnt we regret for not helping him? foreigners in a foreign country who did not know anyone... i could understand that feeling.. after all, i am still called a foreigner in Singapore :P

anyway, how i wished that the shooting massacre didnt happen. 33 people just gone like that... maybe we should start to make a difference once again in other people??

Here another personality test..

Your Type is ESFP
Extraverted 78%
Sensing 25%
Feeling 62%
Perceiving 33%

ESFP type description by D.Keirsey
ESFP type description by J. Butt
Career Choices for Your Type

Qualitative analysis of your type formula

• You are:
  - very expressed extravert
  - moderately expressed sensing personality
  - distinctively expressed feeling personality
  - moderately expressed perceiving personality1

Extraverted Sensing Feeling Perceiving by Joe Butt

"Where's the party?" ESFPs love people, excitement, telling stories and having fun. The spontaneous, impulsive nature of this type is almost always entertaining. And ESFPs love to entertain -- on stage, at work, and/or at home. Social gatherings are an energy boost to these "people" people.

SPs sometimes think and talk in more of a spider-web approach. Several of my ESFP friends jump from thought to thought in mid-sentence, touching here or there in a manner that's almost incoherent to the listener, but will eventually cover the waterfront by skipping on impulse from one piece of information to another. It's really quite fascinating.

New! ESFPs are attracted to new ideas, new fashions, new gadgets, new ______. Perhaps it's the newness of life that attracts ESFPs to elementary education, especially to preschool and kindergarten.

ESFPs love to talk to people about people. Some of the most colorful storytellers are ESFPs. Their down-to-earth, often homespun wit reflects a mischievous benevolence.
Almost every ESFP loves to talk. Some can be identified by the twenty minute conversation required to ask or answer a simple factual question.

Functional Analysis:
Extraverted Sensing

The dominant function of ESFPs is concerned with the reality that is perceived through the senses. This type's prime directive is to examine the tangible through taste, touch, sight, feeling and hearing. ESFPs' need for new experiences surely results from this function. Feeling gives focus to the collected information, producing the amiable nature of this type. As perceivers, ESFPs do not linger on moral concerns unless it is in service of a Greater Good and/or a unifying cause.

Introverted Feeling

Feeling, which tends to decision-making in the interest of individual beings, is auxiliary to sensing. As with all introverted functions, feeling for ESFPs has a surreal, cryptic, quintessential nature. It is more often implied than verbally expressed, more apparent in countenance and deed rather than word or creed. Feeling takes care that playful pokes and pranks do no harm to the victim.

Extraverted Thinking

This tertiary function is at the ready to give definitive answers when the world requires them. It provides a measure of balance to Introverted Feeling, allowing the ESFP some level of boundary and protection from those who would take advantage. When overused or overestimated, however, Thinking becomes a liability. ESFPs do well to seek out confirmation of the soundness of tough-minded decisions.

Introverted iNtuition

This function is least visible. As is the nature of the inferior (fourth) function, ESFP intuition lacks a sense of balance. This type seems most successful in deducing patterns and seeing connections only after a thorough examination of the facts (which process appears quite unorganized and haphazard to non-SPs). Although some ESFPs may develop such abilities, the mastery of logic, analysis and abstraction is usually difficult and wearying, and not very much fun.

Famous ESFPs:
Saint Mark (Christ's disciple), Dale Evans, Gracie Allen, Bob Hope, Eva Gabor, Willard Scott, Goldie Hawn, Kyle Petty, Arsenio Hall, Mary Lou Retton, Kathy Lee Gifford. Steve Irwin, Woody Harrelson (Cheers)

Fictional ESFPs:
Tim "The Toolman" Taylor(Home Improvement), Cody (Step By Step), Mrs. Pumphrey (James Herriot, All Creatures Great and Small)

Personality Test

Personality Test Results

Our basic personality can be summed up in four descriptions: Director, Cheerleader, Investigator and Caregiver.

Your Scores:

Director 20%
Cheerleader 28%
Investigator 20%
Caregiver 32%

As children of God we know that we have been created by Him and for Him. We are individuals, each uniquely designed. In our uniqueness we also have commonalities because we have the same Creator. Because we are human many times our differences can present challenges in effectively communicating with others.

We each communicate with others based upon our perception of the world around us. This sometimes clouds the message that we both send and receive. Through an understanding of our commonalities and differences we can increase this effectiveness. In addition, through the love of Christ that we can each experience, we all have the ability to communicate through our differences.

some pictures to show off :P

took this on 130407 at Heeren

when else we got the chance to sit on this type of car.. (di indo kayaknya nda sekeren ini deh mobilnya :P)

the view from my seat during the Healing Service by Pst Benny Hinn at Singapore Indoor Stadium

Deby and Brillyan before the service started

Roy and Shandy with their big glass of drink

Sendy couldnt bring it home...only could take photo with it..

Brillyan and Sendy at Fish n Co at Wheelock Place. Good food, good place and last but not least, good companions!

thank God

today i dont really feel that well.. i think i got 'masuk angin' (=enter wind??) didnt really have a good sleep last night. but in the afternoon, i took a longggggggg nap.

well... really wanna thank God todae that i could concentrate in reading the textbook without my mind flying to everywhere :) and also..thanks to my bro in batam who made me laughing with his sms.. with my textbook and sms..i didnt feel lonely at all :D instead of thinking what i miss, i should be appreciating what is in front of me right... shldnt i?

jangan salahkan aku kalo kadang-kadang aku hanya ingin dimanja...

some easter pictures...

we took this picture when shandy was sleeping beside me

roy doesnt like perfect picture, so he decided to spoil the picture -_-"

in the mrt, on the way home

roy couldnt wait to use his PINK umbrella

the sweet ladies :D

roy, sendy, brilly just before the easter service

the lighting is just perfect to take some pictures

roy took this.. and he left sendy out of the picture!

here i am... back at my blog

hellloooooooo.... i am wondering..is there still someone out there reading my blog? hahahaa... eniwei.. just in case there is still someone out there, thank you for reading my blog!!!
what should i sae...? Happy Easter!!! Yup yup!!! Jesus Christ has risen from the dead!! Halleluya!
Cant stay too long here.. Just changed my blog skin to freshen it up. the cows had been working too long.. it is time to let them rest :D
Better go now... shall share some stories with ya next time k? take care!!